Adult Americans do not propose

As if refuting the stereotype is the assertion that all normal men are literally obsessed with sex and always want them to engage representatives of the strong half of humanity are themselves often refuse to love comfort with their wives and girlfriends. This is evidenced by regular study of sexual life of citizens, held in the United States. According to polls of the population, about 20 million American couples live at all without sex, but about 20% of them do at least ten times a year.

As the site of FOX News, in most cases, are to blame – the reluctance men themselves. This portal refers to the recently published book by speaking the name “He can no longer” (He’s Just Not Up for It Anymore), which revealed five main reasons why the Americans refuse to have sex.

Considering this issue at the example of four thousand men and women in marriage, without any hint of intimacy was (many of them not only to avoid direct sexual contact, but also refuse to kisses, embraces and caresses mutual), the authors of the publication note: main reason for sexual abstinence Americans is that sex for them has long become routine (68% of cases) or partner in itself does not get pleasure from this process (61%). As a result, lost interest in sex, which clearly lacks diversity. Interestingly at the same time that men who admit it, do not try to change something and somehow variety of activities taking place in the bedroom. Instead, they prefer to blame their partners for the lack of novelty.

The second reason out of love comfort is that the wife or girlfriend is simply not interested in man as a sexual partner (48%). As is known, by nature, men are healthy sexually. However, many of them, it turns out, engaged in self-satisfaction, that in itself does not indicate a lack of libido. Simply point here is that family life often brings, along with stability in the lives of men present boredom.

Another factorNegatively affect the sexual life, is angry that the representatives of the strong half of mankind have in relation to the partner (44%). Indeed, if we look carefully, many men believe that wives and girlfriends constantly criticize them, control and underestimated. In addition, the average man is afraid of losing relevance to the partner, constantly yelling at her and very emotionally expressed his dissatisfaction with and without. No wonder that in this “battle of the sexes is almost no place left for the bright feeling.

Among the reasons why the Americans refuse to have sex, the authors also noted the problem of excess weight: 38% of men prefer to abstain from sex, noting that their life partner put on weight. Interestingly at the same time that man when he gains weight, he does not cease to regard themselves as sexually attractive. But if, God forbid, girlfriend or wife to recover a kilogram – the other, it immediately ceases to be beautiful.

Finally fifth cause – Is that representatives of the strong half of mankind love to watch porn (22%). Even if the wife often visited by an intimate in store, do not scold or criticize her lover, and not overweight, it does not prevent a man from time to time to wander the Internet for sites with “strawberry.” And the main problem here is that male fantasies can fully replace their real sex life.

However, it is not all the reasons why Unsuccessful macho refrain from pleasant experience. His contribution to the rejection of sex make impotence (trite but true), alcoholism, drug addiction, mental rassstroystva, sexual trauma, abstaining from sex to punish your partner, severe depression, taking medications that affect libido, as well as a complete absence of the latter .